Dearest friends and family,
Wow, time flies. I wonder how many times I have said that on this blog. Really though, time is going fast. I sometimes forget all that has changed in our world as I wiz through days of work and kids. I have two kids, okay, I have two babies but I HAVE TWO! And sometimes I still can’t believe that. Cora Eloise was born on May 20th and is just a doll.
We are enjoying getting to know this little girl who is not too different as an infant from her brother. They do have some differences but both overall are very good and mellow babies. I am lucky, and am grateful for it every day, believe me.
I was home for the summer with her. Our Au Pair Valeska was here too so having here to help out was life-saving. I was able to focus on Cora while Hugo was cared for with one on one attention all day with her. Round two also had some similarities to Hugo. I was ultimately unable to breastfeed again. This time, my milk was in, but she was not that willing to work hard for it once she had a bottle. My anatomy doesn’t help either–I guess I don’t have completely normal nipples. Sigh… So I have two formula fed babies, so what? I get more sleep than nursing moms and her other caregivers are able to feed her exactly the same way I do so I guess those are the silver linings. Cora did get over a month of pumped breast milk, so that is something I guess. If she gets better grades than Hugo, we will say that is why.
So how was summer? Cora, Hugo and I took a few trips up to San Harbor this summer which was wonderful. We spent lots of time with Katie, Whitney and the cousins, which was also great! We took our first family vacation to San Diego and Long Beach for Shelby and Brady’s wedding. The trip went great. Air B&B is where it’s at, along with the luggage rack we got. We felt like the Griswolds! Kris and I also had big dreams for getting our pool revamped, decks re-painted/stained and populated with patio furniture. Unfortunately non of that happened, but there is always next year (as we said last year). Nonetheless, we are still chipping away at actually feeling settled into this house we have lived in for over two years now. We still have a room that is not utilized except to hold random stuff. Once dad finishes our office furniture wedding gift, it will be a wonderful office. I focused on making the family room/play area kid proofed so that watching both kids would be easier and I feel good about the progress. We still need a few more things, but they are mostly aesthetic. The room includes a strange wet bar that I want to transform into a real ‘wine bar’ and have been collecting ideas piece by piece. Right now, it isn’t much. I have christmas gift ideas now!
Which reminds me. I have to say how excited I am to go into this holiday season not pregnant! I know I need to focus on losing some weight, but I am also looking forward to being able to indulge in holiday libations. I am making it sound like I really had to suffer when in reality, it wasn’t that bad, but I am excited. I couldn’t be more anxious for fall. I am just a bit too fat for my clothes and really want long sleeve weather. I am sick of being HOT all the time. Maybe by next summer, some of this weight will be gone and I’ll enjoy summer weather and clothes more. And of course, I am excited for soups, hot tea, boots, scarves, pumpkin everything, and changing fall colors. Today is Sep 10, and it is really hot. I am ready for days to hot go over 80 and have some really good cool downs at night.
I have a few goals now that a new normal has begun with us both working with two kids at home. One is to blog more because if I don’t, I am going to forget these days. I am sad to admit that I don’t have a baby book for Cora, and the one for Hugo stopped at 6 months. I’ve got to do something! Until next time….